Joanna Fortune: Is my eight-year-old too young to hear about the facts of life? 

#Joanna Fortune

Child psychotherapist

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Joanna Fortune: Our son isn't settling in school — should we move him? 
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Joanna Fortune: Our teen burns through money — how do we help her to manage it? 
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Joanna Fortune: My son is acting out in creche — what should we do?
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Joanna Fortune: My son has boundless energy — do I need to encourage more quiet time? 
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Joanna Fortune: My son wants to hang out in the village — I don't think he's ready
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Joanne Fortune: My son is lost in secondary school
He has no one to hang out with during breaks, and most days, he comes home with his lunchbox unopened.

Tue, 29 Sep, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: I feel sad that my children have no relationship with my late husband's family
We didn’t have a particularly close relationship with his family. They said their goodbyes after his funeral and wished us well.

Tue, 22 Sep, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My granddaughter is struggling since her mum left home 
My granddaughter stays in her room all day with the curtains pulled, we are very worried about her, what do we do?

Tue, 15 Sep, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My child wants to go back to playschool 
Starting ‘big school’ becomes over-hyped, and when the child finally starts, the reality can feel underwhelming

Tue, 08 Sep, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: Could my grandchild be jealous of the attention I give to her older sister? 
Young children don’t have the emotional language to express their frustration, confusion and indeed, jealousy, other than through their behaviour.

Tue, 01 Sep, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: How can I establish ground rules during my teen's Leaving Cert year? 
Light physical chores can serve as an effective brain break from higher -intensity mental tasks like schoolwork and studying. They are also a great way to take a screen break.

Tue, 25 Aug, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: How can I explain different family budgets to my kids?
Depending on how old they are, keep explanations short and practical so they can relate to what you are saying. When children are very young, your explanations should be simple.

Tue, 11 Aug, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage boys are spending most of their time in bed or gaming
How do I get my kids to help around the house more?

Tue, 07 Jul, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: Our four-year-old still sucks her thumb — what can we do?
Give her time to transition into school and you should see her settle and become less reliant on these external factors for regulation

Tue, 23 Jun, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My partner and I have very different approaches to parenting
My partner lets our school children make their own mistakes, while I am more protective. Now our children are playing us off each other

Tue, 16 Jun, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My baby won't let me cuddle him since my hospital stay 
He may look cross with you but the truth is probably nearer to the fact that he missed you — he was sad and couldn’t understand why you disappeared

Tue, 09 Jun, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage daughter is obsessed with her fitness tracker
If she begins skipping meals or pursuing calorie deficits to lose weight, I would strongly advise seeking professional intervention

Tue, 02 Jun, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My child is struggling to get over the death of our family dog
Do not rush her through this process, nor should you quickly replace the dog with a new one

Tue, 26 May, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: How can I have the talk about sex with my teenage daughter?
It is essential to keep the doors of communication open on this so she can come to you to talk through aspects of her relationships with you in a safe and supportive way.

Tue, 19 May, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My young children are struggling with the demanding online course I've taken on
My nine-year-old daughter says I’m busy all the time. I want to be a good parent, but I also need to think of my future career

Tue, 12 May, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenager is refusing to talk to me after a big row
Initiating repair communicates that your relationship matters more to you than being right, and it’s stronger than this row

Tue, 05 May, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My children are struggling to adjust to creche routine
Your children are still adjusting to a significant cultural upheaval, which may make the transition to their new group care environment even more challenging

Tue, 21 Apr, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: I'm at breaking point following arrival of my third child
You feel overwhelmed because this is an overwhelming time but putting a plan in place to get help from your husband or friends could make a big difference

Tue, 14 Apr, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My daughter is finding it difficult to find her tribe in secondary school 
She clams up if I try to speak to her about it and it's difficult to see her struggle

Tue, 07 Apr, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My 15-year-old is going away on holidays with her friend's family
Her decision to go on holiday with another family instead of her own is not just hers to make

Tue, 31 Mar, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage son and husband seem to be drifting apart  
My husband is a big sports fan but my son couldn't care less so they miss out on the bonding opportunity of watching a game or going to matches

Tue, 24 Mar, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage sons argue all the time
The older one seems to take particular pleasure in annoying the younger one

Tue, 17 Mar, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teen daughter wears high heels and makeup. Why does she try so hard? 
Because this is not a shared interest for you, be careful you are not projecting your opinions about women who dress up or wear makeup onto her. She sounds like a happy, healthy, typically developing teenager

Tue, 10 Mar, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: What is the best way to introduce a new partner to my children?
Don’t just focus on what you will say to your children, focus on listening to them and allowing them to share and express their thoughts, worries, or excitement

Tue, 03 Mar, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage son is missing his big brother 
Child psychotherapist Dr Joanna Fortune gives advice about an evolving relationship between two brothers

Tue, 24 Feb, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My child says she is stupid because she finds school difficult  
I’ve told her she’s smart almost since the day she was born, but nothing I say seems to make a difference

Tue, 17 Feb, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My toddler gets upset when I breastfeed the baby
There is no ideal way to navigate this transition — remember that good enough really is good enough

Tue, 10 Feb, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My young son hates going to school — what if it escalates to refusal?
I’ve tried every trick in the book to encourage him, but nothing seems to be working.

Tue, 03 Feb, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My daughter feels jealous of her friend's friendship with another girl 
I would urge you not to dismiss or minimise your daughter’s emotional response, writes child psychotherapist Dr Joanna Fortune 

Tue, 27 Jan, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: I'm not sure how I'm going to manage it all when my baby arrives
Keep in mind the old saying: ‘It takes a village to raise a child’

Tue, 20 Jan, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage daughters barely said thanks for all their Christmas presents 
I was shocked by their lack of gratitude, and said as much to them, but they just shrugged their shoulders and sloped off. Have I spoiled my children for life?

Tue, 13 Jan, 2026

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Joanna Fortune: It feels as if my in-laws hijacked Christmas
My husband was of little help and kept fussing about his mum, who expected to be treated like a queen

Tue, 06 Jan, 2026

Loving Little Sisters
Joanna Fortune: Our eldest child won't let her younger sisters out of her sight
Risk-taking activity enables children to experience mastery over a task and encourages them to stretch beyond what they think they can do so that they develop confidence

Tue, 30 Dec, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My eldest says we're mean and no fun 
Celebrate Christmas by celebrating the fun in simple, everyday connections

Tue, 23 Dec, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My nephew doesn't get on with my children — and he's staying for Christmas 
December 25 can be an intense day, and families often feel under pressure. Manage expectations

Tue, 16 Dec, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My two-year-old is missing her granny, who had to undergo surgery 
"My daughter is asking lots of questions about when Granny will be coming back to play with her. She cries when I say Granny is not well right now. How can I explain to her what is going on?"

Tue, 09 Dec, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My teenage daughters have started to argue
The fact that your girls have recently started arguing may not be related to their differences in skill sets and abilities — it is more likely due to a developmental clash based on their ages and stages of development.

Tue, 02 Dec, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My teen wants to learn how to drive but I think it's a bad idea
Knowing when to step back and let our teens be more independent is not always an easy call to make

Tue, 18 Nov, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My mother-in-law insists on celebrating Christmas early
"You need to hold your boundaries and pick your battles. This time of year is exciting for children, as your mother-in-law says, but I also see every day how utterly overstimulating this season can be for them."

Wed, 12 Nov, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: How do I help my little girl adjust to a new sibling?
All you can do is stay in the present moment and adapt to however your little one reacts in the moment

Tue, 04 Nov, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My family want to get a puppy but I'm not so sure 
You all need to be in the right place to welcome a new family member and it is OK if you don’t feel that you have the capacity to take on any more right now

Tue, 28 Oct, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My quiet teenager swears when gaming with friends — is this normal behaviour?
As best you can, set limits and hold boundaries with him in a collaborative, rather than combative, way

Tue, 21 Oct, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My young daughters argue all the time
"Both are in the middle childhood phase (eight to 12 years), meaning they are competitors within the same developmental stage, which can lead to the type of tension you describe."

Tue, 14 Oct, 2025

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Joanna Fortune: My children have been caught up in family row with grandparents
My mum usually picks up my two children from school once a week, but says she won't do so until I apologise for my behaviour. I'm hurt that she has taken sides and is using childcare as a form of leverage.

Tue, 07 Oct, 2025

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