Imagine you go on a blind date and meet someone from another country with whom you fall deeply in love. Youâre already successful, independent and at the top of your career. But youâve fallen in love, so you jack it all in, move countries, and leave everything â work, friends, family, support system, identity â behind to become rebranded not as yourself, but as the wife of the person you have just married. The things you do for love.