Sex File: It feels like my boyfriend is checking off a list from the Kama Sutra

"I think the most likely explanation for his behaviour is that he is very sexually inexperienced. He thinks that pushing for gymnastic sex makes him appear like a skilled lover when in fact it does precisely the opposite."

"I don't know how long you have been with your new boyfriend, but it seems that you have been following his lead for a bit too long. Your relationship has remained stuck in first gear."

My new boyfriend wants to try a different position almost every time we have sex. Sometimes it feels as though he's checking off a list from the Kama Sutra. I'm all for some adventure, but can't we get used to something before moving on to the next one on his to-do list?

At the beginning of a new relationship it is common for couples to experiment with different positions. It is a part of the process of getting to know each other sexually. You need to find out how you fit together and that means experimentation.