Depending on how old they are, keep explanations short and practical so they can relate to what you are saying. When children are very young, your explanations should be simple.

You have an important role in helping them to navigate this transition, by being calm, consistent, and a steady base for the children

My teenage daughter has returned from holiday with extra (emotional) baggage

In times like this, as with a lot of things, it is best to lead by example

My other children are excited, but get upset when the youngest struggles

How do I get my kids to help around the house more?

Clear boundaries are an important step to managing expectations among family

Give her time to transition into school and you should see her settle and become less reliant on these external factors for regulation

My partner lets our school children make their own mistakes, while I am more protective. Now our children are playing us off each other

He may look cross with you but the truth is probably nearer to the fact that he missed you — he was sad and couldn’t understand why you disappeared