Joanna Fortune: I want to bring my mother on holidays with us but my husband doesn't agree

Clear boundaries are an important step to managing expectations among family

Joanna Fortune: I would suggest you and your husband set aside some time together and talk this through without any other distractions. Picture: iStock

We’re going abroad on holiday and I’d like my mother to join us to help with the childcare. She’s great fun and the children love her. The trouble is that my husband doesn’t think it’s a good idea, as he wants us to have a quiet family holiday. But I know from previous experience that we won’t get a break without additional babysitting support. I appreciate it’s easier for me because she’s my mum but I wish my husband could see the benefits. What would you suggest?

Going on holiday with family members is great and can be a joyful experience for all involved, so long as clear boundaries are set and expectations managed.