Sex File: I love quickies but my husband doesn't 

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I love quickies and would be happy if that was the only sex we ever had (especially while the kids are young), but my husband would always rather have more elaborate 'movie sex' sessions. How can we meet in the middle without feeling pressured (me) or rejected (him)?

First things first: quickies are a great way to remain sexually connected. They offer passion, intensity and spontaneity and are especially useful in those periods when you're dealing with the demands of small children and have always got one eye on the clock - or the bedroom door.