Be resolute in 2017 and focus attention on the individuals around you

HERE’S the problem with New Year resolutions. Like diets, they don’t work. Yet every year, we commit to a series of self-betterment activities as if to prove the truism that what we learn from history is that we learn nothing from history.
It’s the self-betterment bit that serves as the tripwire. Resolutions tend to be based on the medieval monk assumption that whipping yourself will make you a better person and also make you feel better. For a small minority of masochists, this has always been true. The rest of us, not so much.