Sex File: We want to mix things up in the bedroom  

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My wife and I have been happily married for 14 years but have been wondering if we've become a bit 'boring' in bed. We know what works, and tend to do that about once or twice a month, but we'd like to mix things up without getting too risque. Where do we start?

That you and your wife are questioning your routine means you have already made a start. Making the decision to change things is half the battle, and it's fantastic you are both in agreement.