Sex File: Thinking about siesta lovemaking is stressing me out 

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I am about to go on holiday with my new girlfriend and she keeps talking about how we will be able to have sex every morning, afternoon and night. In real life, we don't live together and have sex three times a week and that is enough for me, and I am finding the pressure to perform so often daunting. But I worry she'll feel the holiday is a failure if I don't.

Let your girlfriend enjoy the anticipation, because it might turn out to be the best part of the holiday. People's expectations of positive events, such as holidays, are often much rosier than the actual experiences.