Pope Francis makes his papacy a family affair
He was not what she was expecting . The man who would one day be Pope Francis had come to hold a service far from the grandeur of the great cathedral of Buenos Aires.
He had travelled by subway and then bus to arrive in one of the shanty towns, which Argentines call villas miserias — misery villages. He picked his way down crooked and chaotic alleyways, along which open sewers ran as malodorous streams when the rain came.
There, amid ramshackle houses, he fell into conversation with the middle-aged mother.
She told him of life in an impoverished slum, terrorised by gangs peddling paco — the cheap chemical waste product left over from processing the cocaine sent to Europe and the United States, or sold to the affluent middle classes of the Argentinian capital.
Dealers mix the residue with kerosene, rat poison or even glass and sell it for a dollar a hit in the slums. So addictive is the drug that one day’s free supply is enough to get hooked, creating a short-lived high followed by an intense craving, paranoia and hallucination.
The dealers target the children of the poor and adolescents who hang around because there is no work.
The woman looked at the prince of the Church and apologised to him for the fact that her son, amidst all that, had stopped going to Mass. The man, who as Pope was to take the name of Francis, looked into her eyes as though she were the only person in his world. “But is he a good kid?” the priest asked.
“Oh, yes, Father Jorge,” she replied, eschewing the grander titles of the cardinal archbishop. “Well,” pronounced the prelate, “that’s what matters.”
At the recent Extraordinary Synod of Bishops of his pontificate, his aim appeared to be to persuade the leaders of the Catholic Church to adopt the same approach he had demonstrated to the mother in the slum — and which has characterised his ministry for the past three decades. It is that the care of individuals takes priority over doctrine.
More than half of the Church’s leaders voted for changes — in attitudes to gay and divorced people — in harmony with the Pope’s approach.
But a minority of conservatives prevented the changes from receiving a two-thirds majority. It seems Francis has some way yet to go to bring the whole Church into line with his new inclusive approach.
The grounds on which he chose to wage this struggle for the soul of Catholicism were revealing. There were many pressing items that he might have put before the 250 bishops, theologians, lawyers and lay men and women he hand-picked to attend the synod.
It could have been the reform of the dysfunctional Vatican bureaucracy. Or the sex abuse sandal which has bedevilled the Catholic Church for the past two decades. Or how to make the secretive Vatican Bank more accountable.
But instead Francis, who has begun to deal with all those issues in other ways, chose a subject which directly touches everyone of his flock — the family. Boldly, it confronted the issue of why large swathes of the faithful chose to ignore official church teaching on contraception, pre-marital sex, cohabitation, divorce and homosexuality.
Yet there is more to the notion of family than that for the man who was born Jorge Mario Bergoglio in Flores, a lower middle class district of Buenos Aires, in 1936. Though he was by birth an Argentine, the future Pope was raised on pasta and in a distinctively Italian culture and faith tradition.
His grandparents and father had emigrated to Buenos Aires from Piedmont in the north-west of Italy six years before he was born. They had no liking for the dictatorship of Mussolini and their older sons had left a few years earlier.
The boy Jorgé was the first of five children and, to give his mother some respite, Bergoglio’s grandmother Rosa took him to her home nearby every day. His grandparents spoke Piedmontese and he learned it from them, which is why he is fluent in Italian as well as Spanish and can even sing a few risqué songs in Genoese dialect, thanks to a reprobate great uncle.
His family had no car and could not afford holidays, but the house was filled with relatives, cooking, opera, laughter and love.
The family’s chief legacy to the boy was its faith. Nonna Rosa told him stories of the saints and taught him the rosary.
The family prayed together every evening. It was a peasant religion that rejoiced in popular pieties, processions, novenas and shrines. Today he retains a special place in his heart for the simple faith of ordinary people.
But the family was not a place of total concord. His mother was angry when she found he was not studying medicine, as she had been told, but theology.
“I didn’t lie to you,” the future Jesuit responded. “I’m studying medicine — but medicine of the soul.” His mother was so upset she refused to go with her son when he entered the seminary aged 19. It took her years to accept that her notion of family should accommodate her eldest son becoming a priest.
For Bergoglio, the notion of family extended to embrace the Jesuits After being taught philosophy and theology by Jesuits at seminary he decided to enter the order who saw themselves as “contemplatives in action”.
But families have tensions and rivalries as well as affection and support. The Jesuits in Argentina were riven in the 1960s and 70s with the arrival of Liberation Theology, which wanted the church to work for the economic and political enfranchisement of the poor. Progressive Jesuits, including their leader, Father Ricardo O’Farrell, embraced this. But conservatives wanted to stick to their traditional job of educating the children of the rich.
They complained to Rome about O’Farrell and the Jesuit leadership in Argentina replaced him with a young conservative, Jorge Mario Bergoglio, who was made Jesuit Provincial at just 36.
However, Bergoglio did not heal the split in the Jesuit family. He made it worse with his inexperienced autocratic style. So deep was the division that one senior Jesuit wrote privately, on the eve of the papal election, that a Bergoglio papacy would be “a catastrophe” for the Church, concluding: “We have spent two decades trying to fix the chaos that the man left us.”
So divisive were his 15 years as Jesuit kingpin in Argentina that, when it ended in 1986, he was sent into exile by Jesuit leaders in Rome. He went first to Germany, where the leitmotif of family once again emerged.
He returned to Argentina only to be sent into two years’ internal exile in the remote city of Córdoba, 650km from Buenos Aires, where he underwent what he later described as “a time of great interior crisis”.
Though it’s not possible to see into another person’s soul, it is clear that in this period of exile, in which he was given no full-time job to do, Bergoglio found a way to see further into his own.
Bergoglio has always been a man of deep prayer. For many years his habit has been to rise at 4.30am-5am every morning to spend two hours in silent prayer before his working day begins. It is in that period of prayer he makes his big decisions, one of his aides told me.
What is clear now is that Bergoglio emerged from that spiritual crisis an utterly different man. He had had a profound conversion that reconfigured his understanding of the way God wanted him to behave.
He developed a new model of leadership, one which involved listening, participation and collegiality. When he arrived at his next job, as an assistant bishop in Buenos Aires, the old Bergoglio had vanished. He had transmuted from an authoritarian reactionary into the figure of radical humility who is today turning the Vatican upside down.
Returning to the city of his birth as a bishop meant that Bergoglio embraced an even larger family. He went to the villas miserias and spent long hours with poor. He became known as the Bishop of the Slums.
Over his 18 years as bishop and then archbishop in Buenos Aires, one priest told me, Bergoglio talked personally to at least half the people in his slum. He would turn up, wander the alleyways, chat to the locals, bless their children and their homes, and drink maté tea with them.
“He doesn’t see the poor as people he can help but rather as people from whom he can learn,” said Father Guillermo Marcó. “He believes the poor are closer to God than the rest of us.”
Many were staggered at the transformation. One of his former Jesuit pupils, Father Rafael Velasco, who is now Rector of the Catholic University of Córdoba, told me: “Bergoglio had been so very conservative that I was rather shocked years later when he started talking about the poor. It wasn’t something which seemed at the top of his agenda at the time but clearly became so as a bishop. Something changed.”
And not just in Bergoglio himself. Over the next two decades Bergoglio transformed the face of the church in Buenos Aires. He quadrupled the number of priests serving in the slums. He became concerned with the water pressure in the pipes as much as the holy water in the churches. He backed self-help groups, co-operatives and politicised organisations — exactly the kind of work he had condemned two decades earlier.
The man who was once the scourge of Liberation Theology among Argentina’s Jesuits now helped form a union among the cartoneros – some of the poorest people in Buenos Aires who make a living sorting through the city’s garbage each night to find and sell recyclable materials. “He wanted to help them to protect their rights,” said Federico Wals, who was Bergoglio’s long-standing public spokesman.
He even embraced much of the economic analysis that had led Liberation Theology to fall foul of the Vatican under John Paul II.
When Argentina became the biggest debt defaulter the world had ever seen in 2001, almost half the population was plunged below the poverty line. Bergoglio responded by denouncing the “unjust distribution of goods”.
What the poor needed was not charity but justice; “not to share one’s wealth with the poor is to steal from them”, he proclaimed. Bergoglio had begun to talk like a liberation theologian.
But if Bergoglio’s contact with the direct poor was making him a political radical, and enemy of the Peronist governments of Néstor Kirchner and then his wife, Cristina Kirchner, it was also affecting his attitudes to the way the Church should minister to people.
The hard life of the teeming slums created high levels of unemployment, crime, drug use and prostitution, which brought high levels of divorce, remarriage and cohabitation.
In the slums of Buenos Aires he learned to see the world differently, says Father Augusto Zampini, a diocesan priest from the city. The future Pope did not alter his doctrinal orthodoxy on matters like the Church’s ban on divorced and remarried Catholics taking communion. But he did not allow church doctrine to overrule his priority of pastoral care for the troubled folk he met in the slums.
After Pope Benedict resigned last year, the cardinals articulated two priorities for his successor. He should reform the scandal-hit Vatican Bank and the dysfunctional Vatican bureaucracy, the Curia. And he should restore a sense of collegiality to the governance of the church so it was run by bishops collectively rather than by the pontiff behaving like a medieval monarch.
Francis acted swiftly to reform the bank and the bureaucracy, bringing in teams of top management consultants, sacking ineffectual regulators and closing over a 1,000 dodgy accounts. He set up a Council of Cardinal Advisory as a counterweight to the Curia.
The pope could have simply announced he was delinking the practice of receiving communion from the doctrine of the indissolubility of marriage. Instead he began by sending out a questionnaire to ordinary Catholics asking their views on church teaching on contraception, pre-marital sex, cohabitation, divorce and homosexuality. It was an unprecedented move.
In the past the faithful had just been expected passively to pray and pay. Next he made the responses, many of which were highly critical, the basis for the Synod discussions. Then on the eve of the Synod he announced that discussion must be frank and fearless .
He got what he wanted. There was free and fierce debate between liberals and ideological conservatives Pastoral conservatives have divided between the two sides. Yet the vote on welcoming gays failed by just two votes to get the two-third majority.
Change is clearly on the march. A series of documents were drawn up These are now the subject of a year’s intense debate. Then there will be a larger Synod on the family next October after which the pope — who concluded by warning against “hostile rigidity” by traditionalists and “destructive good will” by liberals —has the final word.
It will not be a straightforward business. Indeed it could get rather messy. But then family life is like that. And Pope Francis is, above all else, a family man.
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