Sex File: He's too loud in bed - how do I tell him? 

"There is no consensus on what is the right amount of noise to make during sex, but most people consider some to be a valuable form of communication."

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My new man is better than my ex in every way: kind, funny and the sex is amazing - until he approaches climax, when he is incredibly noisy for what feels like a mortifyingly long time. 

I don't want to be a buzzkill or dampen his pleasure, but how do I stop it putting me off?