Sex File: My wife's new porn habit is a turn-off

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My wife has started getting into porn, which I'm not a fan of at all. She's suggested watching it together or incorporating things she's seen into our sex life. Why am I finding this such a turn-off?

If you think rationally about porn, it is a turn-off. There is no romance, no subtlety and no plot. The fact that it is farcical is not the only reason it gives so many people the creeps. There is legitimate concern about the mental and physical health of those who choose a career in porn.