Sex File: Making love after a long drought is tricky 

"Being considerate and not putting her under pressure is the best way to build trust, and if you are patient, intercourse is likely to happen in time."

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I'm in my late 60s and after a long period as a divorcee, have met a woman of a similar vintage who I deeply love and care about. 

However, she has not had sexual relations for more than 15 years and, while we share an easy intimacy and mutual physical passion, she's not ready to go further. How can I make her more comfortable?