Sex File: I hate the lingerie he buys for me

"There is, I suppose, a very small chance that your partner is trying to boost your already healthy body confidence by giving you "exquisite" underwear, but it is a very small chance. It is much more likely that he googled "what to get a lady for her big birthday", and hey presto!"

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My partner recently spent quite a lot of money on some exquisite sexy underwear for me for a big birthday. This is not my type of thing at all. I'm not uncomfortable with my body - I just hate feeling trussed up. I thought after so long that he knew that and fancied me as I am, but this makes me wonder if I was wrong. What should I do?

When men gift lingerie they do so because either they would like their partner to wear it, or they think their partner would like to wear it.