Talk To Me: Worried my fiancé is having second thoughts about getting married 

Psychologist Caroline Martin is here to answer your questions on whatever issues you are dealing with in life, from work pressure and stress to loneliness and grief

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I’m engaged to be married to a terrific man. A few months ago, an old friend came to visit and, after a few drinks, started teasing me about my past boyfriends. There was no stopping her, mainly as my fiancé kept asking her questions. At the time, he joked about me getting around and seemed to take it all in his stride. But he’s been distant with me since. Whenever I ask him what’s wrong, he says a lot is going on at work. I’m not convinced and worry he’s changed his mind about getting married.

Monday will mark the third anniversary of the passing of Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Associate Justice of the US Supreme Court. Referred to as RBG, she offered some sage relationship advice, ‘In every good marriage, it helps sometimes to be a little deaf.’