Sex File: Phone sex was a disaster for us

I suspect the phone sex and the sexting seemed like something that you "have" to do as well - but I can tell you right now, you really don't. 

For some couples being apart more than they are together means that they end up building different lives away from each other

My boyfriend recently started working abroad. We tried having phone sex and it was a disaster - we both just found it so cringey and gave up. Next we tried sexting. I just didn't find it a turn-on. How can we keep a sexual dialogue going when we only see each other every couple of weeks?

Distance tends to either prolong or curtail the romance. Sometimes "out of sight" really is "out of mind".