Dear Dáithí: My in-laws hate each other — and it makes our visits unbearable

"If this situation were to continue, can you imagine the effect it would have on everyone, especially the grandchildren? They would be asking if this was the norm when you get older, and you’d have a tough time convincing them that it wasn’t."

Dáithí Ó Sé, a West Kerry man and Irish television presenter, pictured on the streets of Tralee in Co Kerry. Pic: Domnick Walsh.

Dear Dáithí,

I know this is going to sound like another “in-laws problem”, but hear me out. My husband’s parents don’t get on — and that’s putting it mildly.