Dear Dáithí: My sister invites my abusive ex to family events

"For me, there is no place hot enough in hell for people who are abusive and coercive. It’s all about them and what they can control. So, when you finally said you had enough, it knocked him back on his arse..."

Dáithí Ó Sé. Pic: Domnick Walsh

Dear Dáithí, 

I'm happily married for 14 years to my husband. It's a second marriage for both of us. My son and daughter from my first marriage are 34 and 32 and they get on great with their stepfather.