Sex File: He wants me to be the boss in bed

"...by the sounds of it, he is also, to some degree, enjoying the role of being your subordinate"

I've just started a relationship with a man from my office. I'm his boss, and it seems to be making for an odd dynamic in our sex life. He expects me to be in charge in the bedroom, which isn't what I want at all. I really don't want to be the boss once I've finished work but I don't know how to fix this.

According to research, about two in five professionals have had a romantic relationship with a work colleague, often - at least pre-pandemic - when the heady combination of familiarity and compatibility has been compounded by after-work drinks.