Sex File: Stop talking about sex, and just take your clothes off

"Don't overthink it for a second longer. Take your clothes off, lie down beside each other and cuddle."

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My wife and I have talked and talked about our sexual relationship - or lack thereof. I think we might have talked too much because now it feels as though it's something really serious and is a massive jump to actually get back to having sex.

The most conclusive predictor of satisfaction in a long-term relationship is not "how often" a couple have sex but how easy (or difficult) they find it to talk about with each other. Having said that, if you have talked yourselves to death, it is definitely time to feel your way physically instead.