Sex File: My husband isn't very adventurous in bed 

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My husband is 32. He knows what he likes in the bedroom and that's what he sticks to. I'm not exactly dissatisfied, but I wouldn't mind trying some new things. I just can't seem to get him to be more adventurous. How can anyone this young be so set in their ways already?

Your husband's refusal to even consider your suggestions could easily be interpreted as selfishness, but it is also the behaviour of someone who is not sexually confident. Trying new things in bed can be quite hit and miss at the best of times, and if something doesn't work, you need to be resilient enough to laugh at failure and tenacious enough to try again.