Sex File: I don't like his morning surprise 

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We've got into the habit of having sex on Saturday mornings, which is great, but my partner often jumps in far too quickly with oral sex. I truly appreciate the enthusiasm - but that's precisely the reason I don't always enjoy it.

A. For some women oral sex at any time is the ultimate experience, but for others it feels like an invasion if there's been no build-up. Sometimes it is just too much too soon. Since most men would love this kind of wake-up call in the morning, there is an assumption that most women would too. Male testosterone levels fluctuate throughout the day and in middle-aged men morning testosterone levels can be 20 to 25% higher at 8am than at 4pm. This surge means that men often wake up raring to go.