Be My Baby singer and domestic abuse survivor Ronnie Spector dies aged 78
Ronnie Spector (Peter Kramer/AP)
Ronnie Spector, the rock ânâ roll siren who sang such 1960s hits as Be My Baby, Baby I Love You and Walking In The Rain as the leader of the girl group the Ronettes, has died at the age of 78.
Spector died on Wednesday after a brief battle with cancer, her family said.
âRonnie lived her life with a twinkle in her eye, a spunky attitude, a wicked sense of humour and a smile on her face. She was filled with love and gratitude,â a statement said. No other details were revealed.
The Ronettesâ sexy look and powerful voices â plus songwriting and producing help from Phil Spector â turned them into one of the premier acts of the girl-group era, touring with the Rolling Stones and befriending the Beatles.
Spector, alongside her sister Estelle Bennett and cousin Nedra Talley, scored hits with pop masterpieces like Baby, I Love You, Walking In The Rain, I Can Hear Music and Be My Baby, which was co-written by Spector, Jeff Barry and Ellie Greenwich.
âWe werenât afraid to be hot. That was our gimmick,â Spector said in her memoir.
âWhen we saw The Shirelles walk on stage with their wide party dresses, we went in the opposite direction and squeezed our bodies into the tightest skirts we could find. Then weâd get out on stage and hike them up to show our legs even more.â
Spector, born Veronica Bennett, and her multiracial bandmates grew up in the Washington Heights area of Manhattan. They began singing and dancing in clubs as Ronnie and the Relatives, becoming noteworthy for their liberal use of eyeliner and mascara.
âThe louder they applauded, the more mascara we put on the next time,â she wrote in her memoir.
âWe didnât have a hit record to grab their attention, so we had to make an impression with our style. None of it was planned out; we just took the look we were born with and extended it.â
In March 1963, Estelle Bennett managed to arrange an audition in front of Phil Spector, known for his big, brass-and-drum style dubbed the âwall of soundâ.
They were signed to Phillies Records in 1963. After being signed, they sang back-up for other acts until Spector had the group record their famous hits.
The groupâs debut album, âPresenting the Fabulous Ronettes Featuring Veronica,â was released in 1964. Five of its 12 tracks had made it to the US Billboard charts.
After touring Germany in 1967, the Ronettes broke up. Spector married Ronnie in 1968, then she said he kept her locked in their Beverly Hills mansion.
Her 1990 autobiography Be My Baby: How I Survived Mascara, Miniskirts And Madness tells an unhappy story of abuse. The couple divorced in 1974. Phil Spector was sent to prison in 2009 for the murder of actress Lana Clarkson and died in 2020.
Ronnie Spectorâs influence was felt far and wide. Brian Wilson became obsessed with Be My Baby and Billy Joel wrote Say Goodbye To Hollywood in Spectorâs honour. Amy Winehouse frequently cited Spector as an idol.
She is survived her husband, Jonathan Greenfield, and two sons, Jason and Austin.

