I’d like a fling but have no idea where to start

I’m 45. My husband and I divorced three years ago and I’d like to start dating again. We were married for 15 years and I know that a lot has changed out there. From what I hear, dating apps are just for hook-ups and I have no idea where to start. It’s not that I’m looking for anything serious, I’d just love a nice fling. Where do you suggest I start?

You are right. The dating landscape has changed dramatically in the past 15 years and you’ve also experienced a significant life change, so I’m glad you are clear about what you want from this process. Dating apps are more likely to deliver flings than marriage proposals, so you need to manage your expectations and be clear about your boundaries.