Why is he so quiet during sex?

Sex advice with Suzi Godson

My boyfriend has always been quite vocal in bed. However, recently he has been much quieter and I don’t understand why. I asked him if he was enjoying sex less and he said that he wasn’t. I’m worried that maybe he is fantasising about someone else and focusing on that instead of what I’m doing.

Your boyfriend’s sudden quietness may be because he is fantasising about someone else. However, there is no reason to jump to that conclusion — he may simply feel a bit more relaxed and therefore less obliged to vocalise his appreciation. I don’t know for sure, and neither do you.