Sex advice with Suzi Godson: My girlfriend won’t reciprocate in bedroom

When one person gives their all, and the other continually refuses to balance the books, resentment is inevitable, says Suzi Godson.

Q. I have a relatively new girlfriend who is wonderful — although I feel I am doing all the work when it comes to our physical intimacy.

When I make any specific requests she says she isn’t in the mood, or says that she’ll do it next time — even if it’s just a massage.