I’m anxious about having sex with someone new

It is best to keep things fairly simple in the early stages of a reltionship, says Suzi Godson.

Q. I’m 29 and I was in a relationship for eight years before we split up a few months ago — he was the only person I had ever slept with.

Our sex life was very routine (we favoured the missionary position). I feel very anxious about sleeping with someone new.