It’s a date! Is sex in the diary a sensible option?

Suzi Godson gives advice for when you are struggling to fit sex into a busy schedule.

Q. My girlfriend and I are both very busy, so she schedules sex into our diaries. I secretly hate this; how can I convince her to be more spontaneous?

A. Spontaneous sex is something that tends to confine itself to the first six months of any relationship.