"What matters in a family is that everyone’s needs are met as best as possible. Of course, every child differs, and some present with more pronounced needs, requiring a higher response level."

The truth is she has never enjoyed school except for the days when they do art

"The loss of a family pet is significant for adults and children. For some, losing a pet who was loved and who provided love and companionship can be as deep as the loss of a person."

"Firstly, is there a reason your son is struggling to keep up with his schoolwork? Speak with his teachers to understand his apparent struggles in class."

"Before you rescue her from her feelings, acknowledge and validate how she is feeling because her feelings have context, and they matter."

"Co-parenting in a blended family way is not easy. It relies heavily on clear, respectful and open communication, which can be difficult to achieve if unhealed hurts are on either side."

I’m also worried that my eldest daughter feels obliged to play with her lonely sister

"You describe her as always having been a 'picky eater'. I wonder if there has always been an emotional charge around food in your relationship as a result of this."

This is such a full-on stage of development

"She believes she has left the age of command (do as you’re told) and has entered the age of consent (compliance is negotiable and up to her)."