Benteke wrestled the ball off regular penalty taker Luka Milivojevic — who had already converted a first-half spot-kick — only to see his effort saved by Asmir Begovic as Palace drew 2-2.
Instead of securing a victory that could have taken Palace out of the Premier League’s relegation zone, the 27-year-old striker was booed off by the club’s supporters at the final whistle of a match that leaves them bottom.
Hodgson revealed Benteke spoke to him yesterday before apologising to the Palace squad and the former England manager considers the matter over, even if the Belgian may have to fight to again win over the club’s fans.
“The first opportunity this morning, he gets the players around, says his piece,” said Hodgson.
“He’s already said it to me — that’s a strong and correct thing to do — and he makes it perfectly clear.
“‘I took this responsibility. I shouldn’t have done because I’m breaking ranks, I’m not obeying team instructions, so I apologise for that, but I’m now going to get on with it’, and I’m pretty sure he’ll make it up to us.
“I’m very happy with the way he’s reacted to it, the way he’s taken responsibility, the way he’s explained that to the rest of the team, not just to myself.
“He’s had the courage to talk in front of the team and explain his decision and apologise for not following the instructions.
“I’m happy with that, but I’m never happy when very clear instructions like that are given, and everyone knows they are there to be followed.
“There’s no-one more acutely aware of that than the player who’s made (the mistake). Sometimes you don’t even need to mention it. What’s the point of kicking someone when they’re lying on the ground?
“What you hope for, when something like this happens, is that the player concerned does exactly what Benteke has done at the first real opportunity, which wasn’t in the dressing room after the game.”
Palace host Watford tonight when they will be without the injured Mamadou Sakho — who Hodgson says will be out with a calf injury for “weeks, not days” — but will have Yohan Cabaye available.
And Hodgson will persist in selecting Benteke.
“He played very well,” Hodgson said. “Let’s not forget that. At the moment Benteke, as far as everyone’s concerned, is some sort of pantomime villain. ‘The fans have turned against him’.
“He’s a bit of a pantomime villain, there’s no question of that, but that’s also a bit unfair if you look at his performance, because it was really very good.”
Meanwhile, Marco Silva has implored referees not to “make an example” out of Watford after launching an appeal against Marvin Zeegelaar’s red card at Burnley.
Dutch full-back Zeegelaar was sent off as Watford lost 1-0 in Saturday’s Premier League clash, and has been hit with a three-match suspension.
Watford have appealed against the decision in a bid to have the 27-year-old available this evening.
“I don’t have doubts about the red card. It was very harsh, I can’t say more,” Silva told reporters at a press conference.
“It’s better I just say it with these two words; for me it had a big influence on the match. At that moment the team were playing well — we were there to get a good result and compete. That moment had a big influence on the result.
“I saw two matches in the afternoon yesterday, the Liverpool and Manchester derbies, I saw more than one incident like the Zeegelaar one, and it was a yellow card every time.
“It needs to be equal for everyone — not making an example of one team.
“The Premier League is a tough league, don’t make an example out of Watford.
“In the big matches, the big derbies, it’s a tough game and a big game, you need to equal it with the others.
“Our game was two teams competing really hard but respecting each other. It was a fair game.
“The referee had a big influence and for me, it’s not fair. We’re appealing because we don’t feel it is fair.”