Scotland will never be the same no matter what the result of poll

Nationhood doesn’t matter anymore, does it? Tell that to a Scot standing in George’s Square. And put a sock in it the next time Ireland plays a rugby match against England. Of course nationhood matters. Nationhood matters because nationhood is identity, community and kinship.
It is clear that the “nation state” as we understood it, as an utterly sovereign entity, is over — if it ever existed. But statehood within the context of wider groupings and allegiances is not over. In fact you can argue that the small state working within a big multi-lateral confederation, such as the EU, is the way of the future.