Dear Dáithí: Why can’t I find the perfect soulmate?

"You need to get off your arse, or you’ll give the rest of your weekends sitting on it, and we don’t want that."

Dáithí Ó Sé: "The reason why I think you’re finding it hard to find ‘someone nice’ is because you’re looking in the wrong places."

Dear Dáithí, 

I'm a normal guy, okay looking, good enough job, renting a nice place, I'm fit, I have lots of hobbies,