Sex File: My new man thinks he's great in bed 

To have great sex, you need to be able to tune in to your partner's sexual desires

The transmission of information during sex tends to be very intuitive. Picture: iStock 

My new partner is a wonderful man, but thinks he knows it all, particularly in bed. I've tried to show him what I like and have tactfully explained that what might have worked for his exes doesn't work for me, but he's still not getting it quite right. I'm running out of ideas.

I know you think your new boyfriend is brilliant, but brilliant new boyfriends are usually smart enough to realise that what worked with their previous partner won't automatically work with their new one. Sexual experience is, to some degree, a transferable skill, but different people like different things and respond to the same kinds of stimulation in different ways.