Sex File: I want to try new positions in bed 

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Q. I can only have an orgasm in one position: spoons. I think I might have programmed my body that way. Is there a way of retraining myself to enjoy other positions? My husband doesn't mind, but I find it boring doing the same thing every time.

A. When it comes to orgasm, it is not uncommon for women to do the same thing, in the same way, simply because it is the only way they know that works - and it is often something that starts with the position in which they masturbate.