Sex File: Partner’s rhythm method hitting a bum note

Suzi Godson offers ups some relationship advice.

Q: My partner will only have sex with music on, which I find off-putting. It makes it seem like a fitness class and I feel under pressure to mirror the tempo and drama of the music in my ‘performance’.

A: Like sex, music bypasses the rational and hot-wires you to the emotional, and whether your thing is Bach or Bieber, when what you are hearing gels with what you are doing, it can totally give you the feels.