Sex advice: I'm worried she's not satisfied

Sex advice with Suzi Godson.

I love it when my wife performs oral sex on me, but she doesn’t appear to enjoy it when I try to reciprocate. She says that she is happy and that our sex life is fine, but there seems to be an imbalance. How can I help her to get as much pleasure as I do?

Talking openly about sex can be awkward and embarrassing. It can also make you feel vulnerable because you can’t be certain what your partner thinks, and this creates doubt.