Sex advice with Suzi Godson: Role play can inject novelty into a sexual relationship

My husband of five years has, quite out of the blue, asked me to meet him in a bar and pretend I don’t know him. I assume the idea is that he seduces me, which is fine, I suppose. What worries me is that he might be unsatisfied with our sex life, or that he has tried this with someone else.

Where the idea came from is less important than where it ends up taking you. Although his suggestion makes you feel apprehensive, the fact that your husband wants to push the sexual boundaries doesn’t mean that he is, or has been, dissatisfied with your relationship.