Sex advice with Suzi Godson: My boyfriend thinks he’s amazing in bed

A few months ago I started going out with a great guy. The problem is, he thinks he’s fantastic in bed and is always making self congratulatory comments about it. But the truth is he’s not taking the time to get to know what I want, because he thinks he knows it all already.”

Sex advice with Suzi Godson: My boyfriend thinks he’s amazing in bed

A few months ago I started going out with a great guy. The problem is, he thinks he’s fantastic in bed and is always making self congratulatory comments about it. But the truth is he’s not taking the time to get to know what I want, because he thinks he knows it all already.”

Bragging is an age-old strategy employed by people who are afraid of not measuring up. Instead of asking for feedback, they attempt to bluff their way through anything that threatens them or might make them feel awkward. In the bedroom it might mean using phrases such as, “that was really great, wasn’t it?”, which demands an affirmative response, whereas the answer for, “how was it for you?” could go either way.

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