Sex advice with Suzi Godson: He only says ‘I love you’ when we are in bed

My boyfriend of four years never says “I love you”. The only time he says it is when we’re having sex. He will almost always say it just before climax.

Lots of men only say “I love you” before they climax. It’s a moment of surrender when they can allow themselves to be completely vulnerable. Overwhelmed by sensation, they can suddenly access the wellspring of feeling that is buried deep within them and the words “I love you” just come out.