Boyfriend's explicit language during sex dampens the passion

People want their partners to enjoy sex and if he believes his chatter impedes your pleasure, he’s likely to stop, says Suzi Godson.

Q. My boyfriend uses explicit language during sex. It’s not necessarily what he says; it’s the way he expresses it which I don’t find appealing.

He seems so excited by it, but I think I may have to spoil his fun as I don’t like it at all.