Sex advice with Suzi Godson: Ebb and flow of sex in a steady relationship

Suzi Godson gives her advice on sexual dry spells.

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and I’m worried because we rarely want sex at the same time. He’s always shattered at night after work, whereas I struggle to wake up in the morning. It means that we only have sex at the weekend, normally on Saturday nights.

A lot of the anxiety around sexual frequency comes from the misguided notion that everyone else is having more of it, but the pattern you describe is normal.