Sex advice with Suzi Godson: Sick with nerves when in bed with a woman

I’m a well-paid OK-looking, 40-ish alpha male, yet I’m lonely. Every time I’m in bed with a woman I feel sick with nerves and can’t get it up. What do you suggest?

No doubt there’s a string of less rich, thirtysomething beta women who’d be more than happy to date you. They’re lonely too.

The alarm on their biological clocks has been ringing for, ooh, about five years now, so on the rare occasions when they go on a date they find themselves so sick with nerves that they are barely able to string a sentence together.