Sex File: Is everyone else having better sex? 

A couple in their 40s who have only just met will be having passionate sex daily. A couple in their 40s who have been together for decades? Not so much.

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My husband and I married young, and our sex life has always been decent, but as I approach the end of my 40s, I'm finding myself plagued by thoughts that everyone else has had more fun in bed than us. 

How do I make our comfortable sex life more passionate without scaring the horses, so to speak?