Sex File: He only wants to make love in one position 

"During sex, we communicate with our lips and eyes as much as with our words, so there is something unsettling about your husband limiting himself to a position that makes non-verbal communication almost impossible"

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I have been married for 20 years and have noticed that recently my husband only wants to make love in one position, which apart from being boring, makes me worried he doesn't want to make eye contact any more. What can we do?

Sexual experimentation does not automatically equate to satisfaction. For example, lots of couples only have penetrative sex in the missionary position because it is such a good all-round position. It allows you to touch, feel, kiss, speak and, most importantly, see. If you can't see each other, you are presumably in spoons.