Money Talks: My husband earns more than me and makes all of the big financial plans

Income inequality is commonplace and can cause complex issues for couples

You can't financially plan together unless you are transparent when discussing money. 

Q. My husband earns more money than me and I feel left out of the financial planning in our relationship. Because I don’t bring in as much money, I find myself feeling guilty when I buy something for myself, and my husband makes all of the big decisions when it comes to planning for the future. How do I start a conversation with him about me taking a more equal role when it comes to planning our spending and our saving?

A. Many studies show that money is one of life’s significant personal stressors. It is also well known that money problems contribute hugely to relationship conflict. It is wonderful that you want to find a solution to the issues that you and your husband are experiencing.