Sex File: I don't like kissing my husband but I still enjoy sex

It is interesting that you use the word "wet" to describe your husband's kisses. It implies sloppiness and an excess of saliva, which is kind of icky. The ick factor is particularly pertinent to kissing: when you have the hots for someone, the thought of kissing them sends an electric sex current straight down your spine; when you are not sexually attracted to someone who is trying to kiss you, the thought of having their tongue in your mouth is repulsive.