Gareth O'Callaghan: Suicide leaves behind so many unanswered questions for loved ones

Suicide is not a natural end to a life well lived, and it leaves a mark on everyone who encounters it

‘When someone dies by suicide, questions remain — raw and personal. There will never be answers. Family and friends often start to feel as though they never really knew the person who did it.’

In September last year, an old school friend sent me a song. Have a listen to this, he said. It’s called ‘The First Leaves of Autumn’ by Scottish duo Gallagher and Lyle. It’s one of the most beautiful songs I have ever heard.

Six weeks later he took his own life. A long and distinguished life gone in an instant. “I get the same old answers, but the questions still remain” is a line from the song that still plays on my mind.