Dear Dáithí: I've discovered my husband is having an affair, but honestly, I don't actually care 

Lots of people just get on with life while their children are growing up, and find themselves drifting apart for no apparent reason, other than life has gotten in the way

Examiner features weekender - 29.6.2023 :

Dear Dáithí,

I recently found out that my husband has been having an affair. I discovered it by accident, and I’m sure he hasn’t a clue that I know. I won’t lie — I’m not completely shocked. There have been signs for a while now. But here’s the thing: I don’t actually care.