Dear Dáithí: Our sibling is in trouble, but proud — how can we help?

"The rest of us have been trying to think of the best way to approach the situation, and not make it look like we’re pitying them, or that we think they’re a charity."

Dáithí Ó Sé. Pic: Domnick Walsh

Dear Dáithí,

I come from a tight-knit family of four siblings. We’ve always been close, and even though we all have our own families, we still try and meet up regularly.