I’m separated, in my late 50s, and fearful of dating

After a separation, there is a drop in self-esteem and for some there is a sexual shutdown... It is best not to rush into relationships.

¦ I am a separated woman in my late 50s. All my children have jobs and partners, and I now have more free time.

I would like to meet someone special, but the thought of a sexual relationship puts me off.